If you’re a parent of little ones, the idea of a family photoshoot can feel… a little terrifying. Trust me, I get it. I’m a mum of two little ones myself, and some days it feels impossible to get everyone dressed, fed, and out the door without some tears, tantrums, or sticky fingers. But here’s the thing chasing the last rays of the day with your family is totally worth it. Not just for the photos, the stunning skies, but for the memories you will make along the way.

Sunset is a magical time for families. The light is soft and warm, the sky glows pink and gold, and even toddlers seem to slow down just enough for us to capture them as they really are – curious, playful, silly, and full of wonder. It’s not about perfection, it’s about being together, exploring, laughing, and soaking up a moment you’ll remember forever.

Here’s how to plan a sunset session with toddlers so it feels calm, manageable, and actually enjoyable.

01 | The Magic Of Golden Hour

Sunset sessions are all about light. The hour before the sun goes down called golden hour is when the light is soft, warm and flattering. It’s gentle on little eyes and creates that dreamy, timeless feel you see in sunset photos.

Sessions usually start around 45–60 minutes before sunset, giving us time to settle in, move around, and capture a variety of moments as the light changes.

In New Zealand, sunset times vary a lot depending on the season. Summer sunsets are later, winter sunsets are much earlier, and I’ll always guide you on the best start time for your session so we’re working with the light, not against it.

Yes, it might mean a slightly later evening than usual but for one night, it’s completely worth it.

02 | Preparation is key (for you and your little ones)

A little preparation goes a long way with toddler sessions. A few simple things that really help –

Make sure your child is fed before the session (a hungry toddler, is rarely a happy one)

Bring water and a small snack just in case, something like a box of raisins is perfect

Bring a spare change of clothes in the car and dress them in clothes that they can move freely in

Talk to your toddler beforehand about what’s going to happen

I always encourage parents to explain the session as a little adventure meeting a new friend (me!), going for a walk, exploring, playing and cuddling together. When toddlers know roughly what to expect, they often feel more relaxed arriving.

And from my side, I’ll guide you every step of the way you don’t need to know what to do or how to pose!

03 | Making the session feel special (and stress-free)

The most important thing to remember is that this isn’t about perfect behaviour or getting your toddler to sit still and smile. Its about being present together, letting your child explore and have fun and trusting the process.

I’ll give plenty of direction and gentle guidance throughout the session, while also allowing space for play, movement and connection. Some of the most meaningful images come from the in-between moments.

If things feel a little chaotic at times, that’s okay. That’s real life with toddlers! And it’s exactly what makes this stage so precious.

A Final Thought

A sunset family session isn’t just about beautiful photos. It’s about stepping outside your usual routine for one evening, soaking up the last light of the day, and creating a memory together as a family.

The photos become a reminder not just of what everyone looked like, but of how it felt.

If you’re thinking about booking a sunset session with your toddler and wondering if it’s worth it I promise, it is 🤍